Are There Any Good People Left Out There?

It’s one of the most common questions singles ask me — often quietly, sometimes with frustration:

“Are there any good people left out there?”

The answer is simple and honest: yes — absolutely.

That said, it can feel harder to believe, especially around the holidays.

Why It Feels Heavier This Time of Year

The holidays tend to magnify everything — family gatherings, relationship questions, engagement news, and constant reminders of who’s coupled up. If you’re single, it can feel isolating or make you wonder if you’re falling behind.

If that’s you, know this: you’re not alone. Many singles are feeling the exact same pressure, even if they don’t talk about it openly.

The Truth

There are good people out there who genuinely want meaningful relationships. They’re thoughtful, emotionally aware, and looking for something real — not just something convenient.

They’re navigating modern dating just like you, learning from past experiences, and trying not to lose hope.

Take It One Day at a Time

You don’t need to have everything figured out right now. Dating doesn’t have to be rushed, forced, or compared to anyone else’s timeline.

Take it one day at a time. Protect your energy. Stay open, even when it feels vulnerable.

Hope doesn’t mean pretending dating is easy — it means choosing not to give up.

A Gentle Reminder

Good people still exist. Many are looking for the same kind of connection you are.

This season, be kind to yourself. You’re not behind. Your journey is unfolding — and yes, there are good people out there.

At South Asians Club, we believe in intentional connections and creating space for real relationships to grow.